Kunci kepada penyelesaian masalah

Bila kita asyik fikir masalah, asyik fikir apa yang orang cakap pasal kita, kesannya kita sendiri yang akan susah nak bergerak sebab kita tak ada motivasi. Lebih baik fokus tenaga mental kepada diri sendiri - fikir cemana nak majukan diri kita ni dalam bidang kita, dalam ilmu, kerjaya, ibadah dan kewangan. Kalo difikir sangat apa yang orang cakap pasal kita, sampai bila pun kita tak terdorong untuk memajukan diri sendiri.

Bila berdepan masalah, kita dikawal emosi, bukan logik akal. Kita jadi murung, merundum dan hilang semangat meneruskan hidup. Lihatlah ke dalam diri, cari kekuatan dalaman, fikir bagaimana nak keluar dari permasalahan dengan cara-cara yang difikirkan boleh. Mesti ada sebab mengapa Allah turunkan masalah, paling tidak pun untuk membuat kita berubah, untuk mengingatkan kita yang kita ni dah jarang-jarang menurut perintahnya, makin dekat dengan larangannya.

Fikiran kita jadi kacau bila mendepani masalah. Hati kita hilang ketenangannya. Sebagai orang muda, bukan saya nak temberang di depan orang tua dan pembaca-pembaca senior yang lain tapi sebagai langkah untuk ingat-mengingati sesama kita, antara saya dan Anda. Demi masa, kita akan banyak dapat kerugian apabila kita tidak saling ingat mengingati, berpesan-pesan untuk kebaikan bersama.

Kita tak akan dapat mengelak dari masalah sepanjang perjalanan hidup. Cara terbaik mendepaninya adalah dengan memfokus fikiran kepada penyelesaian masalah tak kiralah masalah kita tu masalah kewangan ke, masalah kerja ke atau masalah dengan ibu bapa kita sendiri. Cari cara untuk selesaikan masalah, selagi cara tu halal di sisi etika kemasyarakatan.

Penyelesaian lain, kekalkan kegembiraan pada tahap tinggi, wujudkan rasa cinta dan kemaafan pada tahap tinggi. Boleh buat?

Banyak kali sudah diulang-ulang, fokus pada penyelesaian, penyelesaian, penyelesaian, bukan pada masalah. Bila Anda sedar yang fikiran Anda mula memfokus kepada masalah, ubah cepat-cepat. Tanya diri Anda dengan soalan ni: “cemana nak selesaikan masalah aku ni?” atau dengan soalan ini: “apa yang aku boleh buat untuk selesaikan masalah aku?”. Jangan sesekali biarkan fikiran terperangkap lalu memfokus kepada masalah tu.

3 Keys in "LOVE"

The Meaning of Love offers and explains a definition of love in a way that is interesting, intense, clear, logical, and meaningful. All relationships --love, infatuation, friendship, dating, marriage, family, community, and professional-- involve three key elements:

• Emotions --how we feel about each other 
• Ethics --how good or bad we are for each other 
• Joys --how much we satisfy or dissatisfy each other

LOVE QUOTES

I could fill a thousand pages telling you how I felt and still you would not understand.

So now I leave you without a sound except my heart shattering as it hits the ground 

Love is like an eternal flame,

Once it is lit, it will continue to burn for all time. 

Love isn't blind, it just only sees what matters. 

Love is a moment that lasts forever... 

You will know the real meaning of love when you fall in love. 

If a tear fell from my eyes, everytime i wished you were with me

I would have a puddle of fallen wishes at my feet. 

Through the wind I hear your voice, in the clouds I see your name.

Living life without you just wouldnt be the same 

If you love someone more than anything,

Then distance only matters to the mind, not to the heart. 

If i had a single flower for everytime i thought of you i could walk forever in my garden. 

When i saw you i was afraid to talk to you...

when i talked to you i was afraid to hold you...

When i hold you i was afraid to love you

Now that i love you im afraid to lose you. 

Telling someone you love them comes from the heart

The place that made you love them from the start. 

True love never leaves the heart, so if you dont love me now, you didnt love me then. 

It is impossible to fall out of love, love is such a powerful emotion,

That once it envelops you, it does not depart. 

True love is eternal.

If you think you were once in love but fell out of it, than it wasent love you were in 

I ran up the door,shut the stairs,said my pj's and put on my prayers.

I turned off the bed and hopped into the light, all because you kissed me goodnight. 

No Boy Is Worth Fightig For, And If You Have To Fight To Get Him,

Than You're Better Off Without Him. 

The Hardest Thing In Life Isn't Finding The One You Luv,

Its Making The One You Luv...Luv you Back. 

A Cute Guy Can Open Up My Eyes, A Smart Guy Can Open Up My Mind,

But Only A Sweet Guy Can Open My Heart. 

I Cry For The Times That You Were Almost Mine,

I Cry For The Memories I've Left Behind,

I Cry For The Pain, The Lost, The Old, the New..

I Now Cry For The Times I Thought I Had You 

I don't know weather to smile cause you're happier with her or cry cause you're not mine. 

Everyday we tell ourselves we're better off without each other,

B ut then every morning I wake up and realize

I love you more then the day before. 

I want to be happy because hes happy

But how can I be happy knowing im not the one making him smile. 

Sticks and stones may break my bones and tear my skin apart,

But nothing hurts me more than you,

Because you broke my heart. 

It takes 3 seconds to say 'I Love You' but a lifetime to prove it. 

Love is friendship, friendship is love.

If love fails, friendship should remain.

For friendship is the foundation of love. 

Let your heart guide you...but listen closely because it whispers. 

You make me smile for no reason whatsoever,

Y ou make me laugh at the unfunniest things,

B ut most of all, you make me love you...

W hen I shouldn't be loving you. 

You will know when you really love someone

When you want him to be happy even if his happiness means you are not a part of it. 

Don't be too good i will miss you.

Don't be too caring, I might like you.

Don't be too sweet, I might fall.

It's hard for me to love you when you won't love me after all... 

And all for love, and nothing for reward. 

A complete need should not exist...

love, life in common with loved ones? 

what we love intensely or for a long time

we are likely to bring within the citadel,

and to assert as part of oneself. 

A girl without freckles is like a night without stars. 

A kiss can be a comma, a question mark or an exclamation point. That's basic spelling that every woman ought to know. 

A kiss can beautify souls hearts and thoughts. 

A kiss can beautify souls hearts and thoughts. 

A kiss makes the heart young again and wipes out the years. 

A kiss? the renunciation of the heart when one is no longer alone. 

A lawful kiss is never worth a stolen one. 

A lover fears all that he believes. 

A lover without indescretion is no lover at all. 

A man is not where he lives, but where he loves. 

A meeting between two beings

who complete one another,

who are made for

each other, borders already,

in my opinion, on a miracle. 

A part of us remains where ever we have been. 

A part of you has grown in me. And so you see, it's you and me

together forever and never apart, maybe in distance, but never in

heart. 

http://www.sheetudeep.com/lovequotes.html 

Cool Facts About Love

When you are together with that special someone, you pretend to ignore that person. But when that special someone is not around, you might look around to find them.  At that moment, you are in Love.

Although there is someone else who always makes you laugh,Your eyes and attention might go only to that special someone.Then, you are in love.

Although that special someone was supposed to have called you long back,To let you know of their safe arrival,  your phone is quiet.You are desperately waiting for the call!At that moment, you are in love.

If you are much more excited for one short e-mail from That special someone than other many long e-mails,You are in love.

When you find yourself as one who cannot erase all the Emails or SMS messages in your phone because of one message From that special someone, you are in love.

When you get a couple of free movie tickets, you would Not hesitate to think of that special someone.Then, you are in love.

You keep telling yourself, "that special someone is just a friend", butYou realize that you can not avoid that person's special attraction. At that Moment, you are in love.

While you are reading this post, if someone Appears in your mind,  then u are in love with that person

LIFE = OPTION

"dont let someone be a priority in your life when u are still an option in their life"

Agree with this quote....bile kiter letak keutamaan pada sesuatu make sure that ia nya berbaloi...pengalaman mengajar aku supaya jgn berikan keutamaan pada sesuatu yg kiter sendiri belom pasti...mcm maner kiter genggam something..belom pasti kiter dapat sehinggalah ianya betol2 erat dalam gengaman kiter..mmm anyway...life is great so enjoy it k...

Sunyi Sepi

boringlah malam nie..ntahlah..cuaca mlm cam xbest jerk..angin pun xder..tetiber aku raser sunyi plak..apakah makne nyer...mmm sejak hidup sorang nie dah dekat setahun aku cuber gak nak biaserkan diri..tapi kekadang tue terdetik raser di hati nak cari pasangan baru ..ntahlah ader ker yg sudi muahahaha..dahlah aku nie xhensem hehehe...bohong klu aku katakan yg aku xsunyi...manusia maner yg xpernah raser sunyi..cube korang bgtau aku..ader ker..?

Discount everytime while shopping

BERITA GEMBIRA

Sure korang memang suka kalau dapat beli barang with the lower cost kan...so aku kat sini nak share dgn korang semer mcm mane korang leh dapat discount...secara ringkas nyer korang leh dapatkan discount kat 
" 5 Merchant "
They will be more in couple of months..

1-  England Optical Group ( Dah bleh dapat discount )










2-  Cathay Cineplexes Sdn Bhd ( Starting 1st Nov 2009 )





                             






3- Tune Talk Sdn Bhd. ( Starting 1st Nov 2009 )




4- Thomas Guys Hair Salon ( Starting 1st Nov 2009 )

5-  Clara International Beauty  ( Starting 1st Nov 2009 )

  

SENARAI OUTLET ENGLAND OPTICAL GROUP

1. Bangsar Shopping Complex 
2. Bandar Baru Ampang
3. Ampang Point
4. Carrefour Wangsa Maju
5. Jaya Jusco Kepong
6. Mid Valley Megamall
7. Pandan Indah
8. KLCC
9. Alpha Angle Wangsa Maju
10. Pavillion KL
11. Sunway Piramid
12. One Utama
13. IOI mall
14. USJ Taipan
15. Leisure Mall Cheras 
16. Gurney Plaza Penang
17. Sunway Carnival Mall Penang
18. Queensbay Mall Penang
19. Plaza Tasek Skudai, Johor
20. Jaya Jusco Permas Jaya, Johor. 

So kalau korang nak buat cermin mata ker...nak beli sunglasses ker korang bleh dapat kan discount kat semer outlet2 " England Optical ".Korang bleh dapatkan discount di anta 20% - 40% bergantung kepada jenis cermin mata yg korang nak lah...even 20% - 40% korang still lagi dapat jimatkan duit korang kan..klu bleh nak dapt lagi murah rite...? Senang jerk..caranya ialah korang just show this info maser korang nak beli cermin mata tue or kat mane2 merchant yg macam yg kat atas tue arr :

ID No : MY 9853399

Nama: Hajah Kalthom Bte Atan

Company: Hajah Kalthom Enterprise

" It was easy, just give them this info then you'll get discount"

Sebenarnye mcm ni, aku ada join IS Entrepreneur Programme.

Revolusi IS meperkenalkan program untuk berkongsi keuntungan dengan semua francais syarikat di malaysia, melalui TRIPLE WIN program. Dperkenalkan oleh Dato' DR Chin See Keat, president kpd Malaysian Retailer-Chains Association (MRCA) dan pengerusi ASEAN Retail-Chains & Franchise Federation (ARFF). Program ini telah drasmikan oleh Timbalan Perdana Menteri Malaysia, Dato' Tan Sri Muhiyidin Yassin sbg satu revolusi perniagaan Francais yang baru di Malaysia, yang boleh meletakkan malaysia sbg pusat membeli belah dunia “SHOPPING PARADISE”. Terkini England Optical Group (EOG) telah menyertai IS program, dan september 2009, 2 Francais yang besar daripada 6 Francais akan turut sama myertai program ini (Bonia, Photokom, OSIM, Poh Kong, Old Town, dan Clara). Setakat ini kesemua 20 Francais dari pelbagai outlet (  Beauty, Fashion, Electrical appliances, hairdressing, leather products, jewelries and etc) berminat untuk mnyertai program yang hebat ini mengikut peringkat demi peringkat. Berminat menyertai program ini, dan anda layak untuk menerima keuntungan perkongsian ( certified entrepreneur, Monthly Retail Profit sharing at more than just one outlets, Reward, travel, business networking incentives and etc). 

" anything do let me know, so that you'll get more in details"

Kolam Ikan Koi

ops luper nak upload gambar kolam ikan kat umah aku nie..kolam nie dah dekat setahun umur nyer...buat maser parents aku gie haji last year...,modal lebih kurang dalam 4k...bnyk gak dugaan nak buat kolam nie..semer 1st batch ikan2 aku mati..plak tue dari baka baik plak sob..sob..sob..sedih2...alhamdulillah 2nd batch nie baru sekor jerk mati...ikan2 nye pun dah besar gak...aku ader sekor ikan favourite aku..Koi butterfly nanti aku ader maser aku asingkan then amik pict dier k...

Hari " Matahahari"

Selamat pagi malaysia...mmm apa plan hari nie ekk...open house semer malam plak tue semer umah budak2 opis..xsedap plak klu xpegie kan...mmm caner ekk..kener bagi2 maser lah nampak nyer...anyway aku ader mission..aku nak cari kuih sarang semut...knapa lah semer umah xder kuih nie...agak nyer semut2 dah malas kot nak buat sarang hehehehehe, ish semut kan makhluk ciptaan Allah yg rajin...kener contoh sikap semut nie...guys out there...jgn malas2 k...hari raya tinggal minggu nie...so maner2 yg lom sempat jengah umah kawan2 tue baiklah jengah k...jgn nak tunggu open house baru nak dtg...cam xbest jer..agak nyer dah jadi tabiat org moden skang nie..xder open house xder nyer nak dtg umah kan...klu aku kat KL lah nie...mesti aku dah pusing umah2 kawan2 skolah aku dulu...rindu plak kat dierang..zaman skolah mmg zaman best giler..yerklah masing2 baru nak naik...mcm2 lah cabaran yg dtg..otak plak masih lagi gile2...ramai kawan2 aku yg dah kawen...bahgia dierang..aku tumpang happy jerk..nak lebih2 maner bleh kan...ish untuk aku...blom ader jodoh lagi arr..ader jodoh pun xkesampaian panjang nyer huhuhuhu...mmm apa nak type pun aku xtau...xper lah nanti2 aku citer lagi..almaklumlah aku nie xpandai nak criter lah...

Celoteh gie beraya umah jiran

mmm hari nie biler sampai umah jerk aku siap2 mandi then dgn penuh semangatnyer aku pun gielah beraya umah2 jiran ngan family aku...ceh semangat kejiranan aku nie tinggilah konon...klu ikutkan hati cam malas almaklumlah kat opis hari nie jerk dah mcm terseksa jiwa aku...ops....aku nak citer bab kuih raya nie...dari 1st day raya aku cari "kuih sarang semut" tapi 1 umah pun xder..dah pupus ker haper kuih jenis nie..xpun agaknyer semut dah xbuat kot hehehehehe kebanyakan umah mesti ader "almond london" nie bermakner kuih "almond london" nie mmg antara kuih yg wajib ader kat meja kuih kat umah2 korang kot..tapi knapa kat umah aku xder..ish yer ker xder..nie yg aku nak kener gie bawah jap check kuikuikuikui...arghh lantaklah kuih apa yg ader janji leh makan x gitu kan...aku nak bgtau nie...nie yg aku menyirap jap ..maser aku gie umah jiran aku tadi ader ker patut kaki aku terpijak kaca kat dalam umah dier baru jerk aku nak duduk bleh plak ader kaca kan lantai..dah berdarah kaki aku...luka klu kener kaca nie mmg bisa sket...dah jenuh plak aku nak kener tahan sakit ngan darah yg asik kuar jerk..slamat xbesar lukanyer tapi aderlah dalam 1cm..agak2 jerklah tue hehehehehe...sampai umah jerk aku amik capal bapak aku aku ketuk kat luka tue..mau herot berot muka aku tahan sakit..bukan apa nak bg darah bisa tue kuar...nie pun still lagi bisa biler aku jalan...luka accident hari tue pun lom baik lagi nie bleh plak kener kat tapak kaki...cam budak kecik plak aku nie..xperlah dah nasib badan kan...ok lah sok klu kat opis aku xbz sgt aku bebel lagi k...see ya buddy ;)